Instead of trying to forget about hurt, Warren says God offers a better way.
"Forgetting is not what God wants you to do. Instead, he wants you to trust Him and see how He can bring good out of it. That's more important than forgetting, because then you can thank God for the good that he brought out of it. You can't..."
http://www.christianheadlines.com/blog/pastor-rick-warren-god-doesn-t-want-you-to-forgive-and-forget.html
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